The last thing we want to do is add clutter to the home of a friend. If it is a birthday, we want to give something that will add pleasure to his/her life, but not clutter. How about going for a pedicure with your BFF? Or how about a bag of freshly picked blueberries? A friend of mine recently gave me a card which said inside that she would honor my birthday by donating blood three times in the next year, a practice that is true to my heart! Give it some thought. Coming up with that clutter-free gift is the best gift of all.